I am a 25 year old girl, and have never been in a loving relationship. I don't know what I lack or what I am doing wrong. I am extremely intelligent, studied at one of India's premier institutes and I am also a kind & loving person (as everyone says). Some guys have told me I am hot (I do have a good figure) but no one has ever asked me out. Personally I believe I also have really beautiful features but I don't have good hair- probably that's the reason.
Hair makes a lot of difference to a girl's face. I tried all possible treatments but nothing works- my hair is still curly and wild. Chemicals have caused me to lose a lot of hair causing bald patches. Is love really so superficial? From what I know of life, it just depends on luck and destiny. But then how is it fair that some girls get everything and some don't? I do not come across as arrogant or aloof- I am friendly, warm and talkative. I improved my dressing as well- yet I don't have a guy. What am I lacking?
Expert Advice –
I have no doubt that you are a smart, intelligent and beautiful woman. I cannot tell exactly why men are not asking you out, but I can say that there is nothing lacking in you. Nobody is perfect and we all have our flaws. We all deserve love and we will find it, when the time is right. I recently read an article which said that intelligent women tend to be single for longer. So don't lose hope. There is one thing I can tell you from experience, it's better to be single than with the wrong person. You will find the right person for you, who will love you for who you truly are.
However, if you do feel that your hair is holding you back from finding true love then I would suggest that maybe you should consult a dermatologist. I understand that you have tried several treatments before but sometimes there could be other medical reasons causing the problem and it’s always good to identify them. I hope that you will find the true cause of this problem, so that it no longer holds you back.
In my opinion, you should focus on enhancing the features you have and try not to let your hair hold you back. Keep going out and try to meet new people. Stay confident and the right person may just come to you. But at the same time it is important to learn to be happy even if you’re single.
I hope you find true love soon.
- Meghna Prabhu